by FireWolf52 » Wed Sep 25, 2019 6:51 am
Username;; FireWolf52
Show Name: SRS No One Like You
Barn Name: Crown
Gender: Stallion
Age: 5
Height: 17.2hh
Halter: Dark brown leather
Discipline: endurance
Where do I even start...
I ride horses, I guess that’s a good thing to get out of the way. I’ve been competing in Hunter/Jumper events for 11 years. I went through a time with a trainer who didn’t want me to succeed, and my confidence suffered. My old trainer wouldn’t let me jump or compete (even though I had done both on a consistent winning basis before) with my pony because she wanted her daughter to win. It felt like it was because I wasn’t good enough. I was convinced I had zero talent in the sport. I had no friends at this barn and my mom was blind to it so I felt like I had no one to turn to. Eventually a new girl came to the barn, we'll call her Natalia right now, and she fit perfectly with my personality. We became best friends. The trainer began taking her aggressions out on not just me but Natalia also, and I couldn’t put her through that. So I convinced my mom to let me leave and find a new barn. I was sad to leave Natalia behind, but I knew once I left she’d be able to have a fair riding career. Finally I was free, at a new barn which I loved. But there was one problem. I had a pony that had t jumped in three years, and he was not happy about his job becoming harder. He would run uncontrollably and jump the fence of the arena. He’d run me into the walls of buildings and take off into the parking lot. He was a jerk. And still I felt like this was my fault. I had watched everyone my age move up without me, and I was left behind. It was hard. My new trainers came to me and said I should get a horse, and they wanted me to try Silvio. He was a chestnut gelding, warmblood, with an irregular crescent moon shaped stripe on his forehead. He was an aggressive creature, and the girl who rose him never gave him any extra time or care because of it. Turns out she was quitting, so he’d need a new owner. I agreed to try him, and he was fantastic when I was in the saddle but he charged at me in the ground. He would snap and kick and bite. He was awful. But he was reliable when I was on, so we decided to take a chance. We bought him. I spent every waking moment with that horse over the summer. I say in his stall with him, I groomed him constantly, I took the hay and grain away from our grooms and fed him myself. Eventually he got used to me, even looked forward to me being there. He’d whinny at me and our relationship grew. And so did my confidence.
Fast forward three years...
In the ring we became unstoppable, and with enough practice we became in sync completely. Silvio is my best friend, we understand each other. I’ve never ever felt this way with another horse. It’s like we sense each other. We won multiple national titles and competed at multiple high level competitions. But no worries, because unlike some other horsewomen/men I don’t ride hard all the time. That’s the key. I take into account what my partner wants and we do those things. Sometimes we go for an hour long trail and I let him swim in the pond. Sometimes we work out over cavaletti gymnastics. Sometimes I just groom him. I love this horse. The other night I was at the barn, and all the horses were sleeping. But there was Silvio, staring out his window at the stars. And I stared with him. Recently I did a clinic with a major trainer in the hunter world and he told me this, “this is a fantastic horse, he’s one in a million, but do you know why he is? Because you make him great. Do you know why you’re great? Because he makes you great. I’ve never seen a pair of horse and rider this young and this bonded in my whole career.”
Thank you for the opportunity. I really enjoyed writing this, and there’s so many more things I could add! I hope it’s coherent lol! Silvio is the best thing that’s ever happened to me, so I mean if any one out there is a horse persona and wants to talk more about this or their horses let me know! Feel free to PM me I love hearing from equestrians! And I hope someone enjoyed reading this, I wish I could share more of our story, but it’s just too long to fit in a single post!
For my boy, “Silvs”,
-Fire
Going through a rough time right now, trying to stay active in trades but I might answer slowly, I apologize!
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