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Re: ♥Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends | V6♥

Postby sillies » Fri Jan 12, 2018 5:32 pm

    When you end up in a rushed relationship that you didn't want in t
    he first place, but you still said yes after you told him you were in
    terested in someone else and now you feel so stupid and ashamed
    of yourself
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Re: ♥Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends | V6♥

Postby Kisiel » Fri Jan 12, 2018 7:02 pm

peach tea! wrote:
    When you end up in a rushed relationship that you didn't want in t
    he first place, but you still said yes after you told him you were in
    terested in someone else and now you feel so stupid and ashamed
    of yourself


Sounds to me like you'd better breaking it off now before the other side gets emotionally invested and end up getting hurt.
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Re: ♥Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends | V6♥

Postby Vixem » Fri Jan 12, 2018 8:25 pm

If you read my 2 posts before, you’d understand this one better.

I think my boyfriend is having an affair overseas, I know I said he reassured me when
I spoke to him but I just found a hidden contact on his phone. I’m suspicious since it
was way down the bottom of his contact list? It’s a girl too, I’ve never even heard of
her name..

I asked him about it but he denied everything.

He removed his social media information from my device last night when I was asleep
which makes me mad because I feel like he’s trying to hide something now.
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Re: ♥Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends | V6♥

Postby Ventru » Sat Jan 13, 2018 2:02 am

ᴍɪᴀ wrote:If you read my 2 posts before, you’d understand this one better.

I think my boyfriend is having an affair overseas, I know I said he reassured me when
I spoke to him but I just found a hidden contact on his phone. I’m suspicious since it
was way down the bottom of his contact list? It’s a girl too, I’ve never even heard of
her name..

I asked him about it but he denied everything.

He removed his social media information from my device last night when I was asleep
which makes me mad because I feel like he’s trying to hide something now.


Definitely sounds really fishy. Talk to him about it, explain your worries and how his actions seem very suspicious. See how he reacts. I'd imagine if he wasn't cheating, he'd have a VERY good explanation and would do anything he can to prove he's not cheating.
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Re: ♥Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends | V6♥

Postby WastedSpace » Sat Jan 13, 2018 2:32 am

ᴍɪᴀ wrote:If you read my 2 posts before, you’d understand this one better.

I think my boyfriend is having an affair overseas, I know I said he reassured me when
I spoke to him but I just found a hidden contact on his phone. I’m suspicious since it
was way down the bottom of his contact list? It’s a girl too, I’ve never even heard of
her name..

I asked him about it but he denied everything.

He removed his social media information from my device last night when I was asleep
which makes me mad because I feel like he’s trying to hide something now.


This sort of distrust/paranoia usually points to either (or possibly both):
- A fundamental problem in the relationship that was never properly solved so that all involved parties can trust each other that should be honestly talked about between the people in the relationship
- A personal issue regarding distrust/paranoia that would probably be beneficial to talk with a professional about so that the negative feelings can be coped with in a more healthy manner


Sorry, that's unfortunate.
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Re: ♥Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends | V6♥

Postby ///// » Sat Jan 13, 2018 2:40 am

I didn't my crush at the store she was working today and I want to ask what day can I see her working what to do? who to ask?
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Re: ♥Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends | V6♥

Postby leeheeseung » Sat Jan 13, 2018 3:40 am

      hi i wanna get this off my chest because i need a second opinion.
      a few hours ago, my ex was intoxicated by some juice and sent me snaps that
      were very questionable. u catch my drift

      at first, i thought it was an accident or a general snap, but i messaged two of my
      friends who were also friends with him and neither of them received
      the same or any snaps from him.

      last time i checked, i was not in his recents, he was not in mine.

      ofc, i replied to the first snap, as a reaction.
      but he kept on replying to me, immediately might i add.
      they were humorous and it just demonstrated how much
      hes drank throughout the night.

      the last snap i got from him was a selfie stating
      his current situation and he never opened my other two snaps since.
      one to reply to his last snap, "i hope ur ok"
      and another one that was general.

      honestly i feeling nothing but amusement and a hint
      of anger.

      was this an honest mistake or is he trying something.
      disclaimer: he broke up with me, so idk whats up

      edit: we also ended on good terms, and we are friends
      but we are ex's afterall, so sending me something interesting
      really, REALLY, triggers my curiosity like. hmm, HMMM


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Re: ♥Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends | V6♥

Postby Kisiel » Sat Jan 13, 2018 3:58 am

leopardess 12 wrote:I didn't my crush at the store she was working today and I want to ask what day can I see her working what to do? who to ask?


I'm sorry but you should really leave her alone and let her do her job. There's nothing worse than being harassed and disturbed while you're at your work place, and while I understand that people may have good intentions and just want to chat or whatever but it can be very frustrating when you have a job to do. I would honestly advise against it.

To answer your question though, if you want to know her shifts she would probably be the best person to ask.
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Re: ♥Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends | V6♥

Postby ///// » Sat Jan 13, 2018 4:50 am

Kisiel wrote:
leopardess 12 wrote:I didn't my crush at the store she was working today and I want to ask what day can I see her working what to do? who to ask?


I'm sorry but you should really leave her alone and let her do her job. There's nothing worse than being harassed and disturbed while you're at your work place, and while I understand that people may have good intentions and just want to chat or whatever but it can be very frustrating when you have a job to do. I would honestly advise against it.

To answer your question though, if you want to know her shifts she would probably be the best person to ask.


Well. I asked few times if I was disturbing her about it, she said I don't. so.. I might ask her.. yeah it's hard to have a crush on someone who's working but I do like her.. sorry^^"
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Re: ♥Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends | V6♥

Postby Elettra » Sat Jan 13, 2018 10:44 am

I need some random advice -

So about a year and a half ago, I broke up with this guy I was seeing. We were really good friends before we dated, but things ended badly between us - I am fairly sure that he cheated on me, but he never admitted to it.

For some unknown reason, lately I haven't been able to get him off my mind, and I think I'm starting to develop feelings for him again. The problem is, I really, really, really don't want to - he treated me like trash, and it's so frustrating for me to be interested in him again. does anyone have any advice as to how I can "get over him?" I feel like this is such a weird question, but I was curious to know if anyone had any advice or similar stories they could share. Thanks! ♥
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