by WigglyBeing » Mon Dec 25, 2017 3:35 am
@scoomacat tophatman sounds like a shadow person to me. Many people relate similar phenomena to the presence of a spirit or other entity, so you arent alone in experiencing this, but the 'hat man' you see wont be the same as ones found elsewhere, if that makes sense :)
Whether you should be concerned or not would depend on how the situation is affecting you. For me seeing shadow figures at home lined up with a really draining malevolent entity, which was worth being concerned about and ultimately getting rid of. Nowadays at work, I will occasionally see figures out of the corner of my eye, but it doesnt effect my work or my psyche enough to warrant a second thought. It really would depend on whether the entity is just going about its business or whether it is trying to directly connect to you, and how you feel about such a connection. (I have to say,, huge shadow figure lurking in hallway any beyond isnt off to a great start. The top hat as its only attempt at appearing recognizably human and appraochable doesnt wash with me either. my intention really isnt to scare you, but I 100% agree with your dad that engaging with it could inflame the situation.)
Spirits dont neeeed to be intimidating to get their message across. to me, the shadow figure slinking closer to your living and sleeping area over time, feels a little intimidating which in my experience implies ill intentions. In which case I would go about clearing your space and protecting yourself however you see fit.
I'm not an expert on the subject, so hopefully someone else has more insight and advice!! What I can say is if you are feeling threatened by whatever this thing is, or simply don't want it in your space anymore, you should definitely attempt some self protections like this forum lists out at the start, or like peachtea suggested on the previous page, cleansing your space with sage. If you are ever feeling momentarily overwhelmed or scared, like skittle points out, so much as white light protection can work wonders!! If you're not religious, try the mantra 'white light, bright light, please protect me day and night.'
best of luck,, you got this! wiggles <3